Do I Have Intimacy Issues?

How many of the following statements apply to you?

1. I worry that romantic partners won’t care about me as much as I care about them.
2. I often wish that my partner's feelings for me were as strong as my feelings for him or her.
3. I worry a lot about my relationships.
4. When my partner is out of sight, I worry that he or she might become interested in someone else.
5. When I show my feelings for romantic partners, I'm afraid they will not feel the same about me.
6. I find that my partner(s) don't want to get as close as I would like.
7. Sometimes romantic partners change their feelings about me for no apparent reason.
8. My desire to be very close sometimes scares people away.
9. I'm afraid that once a romantic partner gets to know me, he or she won't like who I really am.
10. It makes me mad that I don't get the affection and support I need from my partner.
11. I worry that I won't measure up to other people.
12. My partner only seems to notice me when I’m angry.
13. I prefer not to show a partner how I feel deep down.
14. I find it difficult to allow myself to depend on romantic partners.
15. I don't feel comfortable opening up to romantic partners.
16. I prefer not to be too close to romantic partners.
17. I get uncomfortable when a romantic partner wants to be very close.

Even if as few as 2 or 3 apply to you, then you are facing barriers to intimacy; and/or your relationship can be significantly enhanced by addressing your emotional experiences in close relationships.

Please contact us to book an appointment.